There is no doubt about it, being yourself is the most comfortable being you can ever be.
You are not being comfortable being yourself mainly due to the judgement made by other people around you.
Whether their judgement is acceptable, whether it is true or not, or whether they judge you at all or not, those judgement don’t serve you any right to be as free as being yourself.
Those judgement actually could not affect you at all in the present time, in the past or anytime in the future.
You are who you are and you have the right being as who you are right. There is no right or wrong or good or bad as it is merely a judgement.
All the judgement, good or bad, thrown at you are never true. It is only regarded to be true to the extend that you accept it to be true for you.
To be comfortable being yourself, you need to dismiss all judgement toward yourself and other people around you.
Accept yourself as who you are and accept themselves as who they are.
The way how you judge other is how you think others would judge you whether it is true or not. As you dismiss all judgements toward yourself and others, you will free yourself from any judgement from anyone even if they do judge you.
Be what you are comfortable to be. Be yourself… because it is the best being you can ever be.